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Being scared and defying the odds is what makes a good story
How about this advert for explorers to join Shackleton's race to the South Pole, a challenge that saw another group, led by Sir Robert Scott, doomed to an icy grave. Incredibly, 5000 people evidently applied to join the team."Men wanted for hazardous journey. Low wages, bitter cold, long hours of complete darkness. Safe return doubtful. Honour and recognition in event of success."
You change the world by expecting the unreasonable
I'm not sure what it's like at Apple now, but stories of the development of the first Mac are flavoured with people sleeping under desks, living on pizza and Coke, day in day out, month in month out ... People not just developing a product, but a team hoping to change the world. - Richard Branson didn't build Virgin by just talking about music, or by just talking about a record company, he did it by living his dream day in day out 24/7, even selling music from the boot of his car. He did what he had to do so that one day he and his people would change the world. Sure it was play hard ... but it was also work hard. - Mother Teresa's story is not one of personal comfort, it's one of self sacrifice. She influenced the world by putting herself last. Putting her needs behind those people she served. - I am completely unreasonable with myself. We don't measure ourselves against our neighbours, or even our competitors, but against people like these that have already changed the world.Will money make you happy?
I have a friend who, whenever you talk about working hard, says, "Money won't make you happy". What she doesn't understand is, it's never really been about the money. It's about the challenge, the excitement, about making a difference. It's about changing the world ... it's about creating something legendary.But are these stories just the lies we tell ourselves?
Steve Blank wrote this story about lies entrepreneurs tell themselves which I agree with and have from time to time told myself. The truth is, however, living your dream leads to a passionate life, but pursuing them and working hard is not an excuse for not prioritising family, friends and the people you love. Life is for living and one's mission will end up empty and with regrets if being out of balance remains your way of life. Just be careful, because when you care more about others, or about your mission more than you do about yourself, it can be hard to see that things are "out of balance".
Overwhelm has become a theme recently, but simplicity and presence are now my focus
You will have noticed in my post about "Being an entrepreneur and how not to travel" that I basically burnt myself out on a recent trip, and while this is true, it would be more accurate to say that I have been doing this more and more over recent years. So much so that last year I had to take a couple of months off due to sickness caused by stress and exhaustion. Fortunately people have been pointing out that I am heading there again and as I don't want to go through that once more need to prioritise.Fine ... But why so ruthless with twitter?
I joined Twitter for the conversation, to make contact with people with whom to socialise, and keep up to date with information. During that time I have been deeply honoured to have built a pretty big following, and for much of the time I automatically followed people back, I guess to be polite. That was great in the beginning, but as the list grew, it became harder and harder to keep track of the people I was actually interacting with, and by now I can't even see what people say unless they specifically reply to me because the stream of tweets moves to fast. What started to as fun, soon turned into something of a burden as it makes me feel disrespectful if I don't also get to see what these friends are saying, and of course I'm having only half the fun. It was never about talking at people, it needs to be about talking with people. How I used Twitter started to change the day I found myself in trouble as I started to think more consciously about twitter spam, follower ego and how much noise there was. I love the service and love how you can interact so easily with people but felt there had to be a better way.Simplicity and focus.
I'm hardly the first person to do this for example Loic Le Meur, a high profile geek and founder of Seesmic, did the same and deleted 23,000 followers, and although Tsudohnimh proposed a great solution for dealing with a large number of Twitter followers, I didn't want another system. In a post on needing to have fun, if you want to be creative I introduced a book and time management system called Zen To Done. This is now becoming a way of life for me at work. You will see it even in the fact that my blog looks different, it's simpler, cleaner and by changing it's focus slightly, it lowers the expectation of me by allowing me to be myself.I'm sorry
I am again sorry that I can't follow everyone, but I believe strongly in being present with the people I am with and therefore if you interact with me on my blog or twitter, I will with you. Say hello, let me know how life is treating you and what makes you get up in the morning and if you're interested I'll do the same. Alternatively if you prefer just to listen, that's cool too. Until we meet, have an awesome weekend and all the best.
I started asking questions
"Excellent, why?" ... A blank look is returned ... "Why, do you want to start a business?" ... "To make money ... and get rich" ... "Why?" ... "Why what? ... "Why do you want to be rich" ... "So I can give my family a great life, so that we can have stuff" ... "Why do you want that?" ... "So that we can be happy."But that's failed logic
At this point I understand their desire, but I also know I am talking to someone that is not going to be an entrepreneur ... In fact they are probably never going to be truly happy until they find a better answer to "Why", and until they learn to ask why for themselves. You see, it's a failed logic, money won't make you happy. In fact maybe all this person needs to do to be happy is to lower their expectations about money, to build a story around why they don't need money, why money is wrong and why working that hard would take them away from what's important ... like family. The truth is however, that won't make them happy, that will just make them numb. Happiness will only come through connection to a higher purpose ... if you, like "one's destiny" ... it comes from contribution.At the end of this post I have linked to an interview with entrepreneur Michael Hill (Jeweller) from a National Radio show this morning. He made an awesome comment that I believe supports this:"When you are in harmony, you don't want to take, you want to give."
Observation #1
Have you ever noticed how many successful blogs are about how to be a successful blogger?. And if they are not about blogging then they are often a "how to" site, maybe with tech tips etc. What about these for example? How to become a popular blogger or How to become wealthy right now and 5 ways to 'systemize' your blogging. Before I start a fire storm, I'm not criticising these sites. I think they are awesome and have great stuff to share, but what about the question ... Why? ... Why do you want to be a successful blogger? Why is this information right for you? Written goals a good, but they are exponentially more powerful when you add a 'WHY?' to each item. A deeply considered and deeply felt why ... a deeply considered connection to that higher purpose. These blogs will give you a strategy once you are moving, but this connection to purpose will be the fuel for your fire.Observation #2
I was at a course last week, and sat for most of the week at the back of the room. I noticed that a large proportion of the room were hurriedly writing notes, trying to take down every detail – they needed to make sure they captured the strategy perfectly ... A smaller group didn't take many notes, what they seemed to record was not the strategy verbatim, but ideas that connected with what they already knew ... they recorded the inspiration. What I found interesting was: the group that took the notes hadn't started a business yet or were struggling. In fact many of these people, without wanting to be unkind, will probably never start. They are trying to educate themselves a safety net and of course without an empowering "Why", no safety net will ever be good enough. The second group however, didn't need a safety net as they were so well connected. They had turned their 'why?', into a 'why the hell not?' as if to say, 'what else is there?'I guess I am reminded today
If we want to change our destiny, if we want to change our life's direction, if we want to grow beyond where we are now then we must always explore why? NB I came across a blog recently that I am starting to love called mixergy.com. What I love is how Andrew really trys to dig deep in his interviews, sometimes to the point of making the interviewee a little uncomfortable. He passionately explores the 'Why?' behind what the person does, and do they live what they 'say'. Have a look, I particularly enjoyed these two interviews, one with Seth Godin on Why You Need To Lead A Tribe and How Alltop Is Growing By Following Its Founder’s Advice – The Guy Kawasaki InterviewInterview on New Zealand National Radio with Michael Hill Jeweller

These men are all different, but in some ways the same
They are by no means the richest people I have known, and might seem on the surface of it completely different. They include a property developer, two Xerox sales people, a Xerox dealer, a wool merchant and the last is my Dad. You'll notice from that list how significantly Xerox features, and that is because although I largely hated my time working there (seven years), it was a wonderful training ground in communication and sales. Two crucial skills that need to be mastered if you wish to have a successful business. My Dad is included, not as some shallow suck-up to one's father, but because as part of a two person tag team, he and Mum have done more to develop my entrepreneurial ability, standards, world outlook and competitive streak than anyone else. They have brilliant insight, some of which I would like to share, but they'll have to wait nervously till post #6 to see what I have to say :-)So what do these people have in common?
They are all all self made people ... they are all ambitious ... they all have high standards ... they all live outside themselves and add value to others ... and most importantly they all became successful, not by honouring "the rules", but by making them.Les Harvey property developer - the unlikely rich guy
That's Les in the photo, complete with sailor's hat and jumper. He must have brought a new jumper for the photo shoot as my memory is that the one he normally wore was much older, and his hair always messy. He was the unlikely rich guy because to many people he looked more like he lived on the street rather than as the owner of a significant portion of Auckland's central city. When I read the book The Millionaire Next Door I immediately thought of Les. There were no airs and graces with him, no flaunting his wealth; he was almost cagey as to which buildings were his. I liked that humbleness, and noticed how it sparked more curiosity than if he had been flashy.Lesson #1 - Set your own rules
When I worked at Xerox, the corporate uniform was strictly imposed, and peer pressure even encouraged you to spend significant money on cars and suits. Looking right, looking successful, keeping up with the Jone's. I know as entrepreneurs, we sometimes have to play the part, wear the suit and behave as expected, but what I love is being able to be like Les. That is, being myself, wearing what I want, getting past the pretence and setting my own rules.Lesson #2 - Love the company, not the product

Thank you Les
It's not a complicated story, but certainly one that has influenced me since my time watching and learning from you as a child and teenager. Hard work, frustration and lots of responsibility may be a potential downside of being an entrepreneur, but being able to be the sailor and captain of your own ship, setting your own direction and making up your own rules is definitely a bonus.